Monday, March 16, 2009

Good Enough To Eat

Yummy! What's delicious? A woman with character.

How boring would it be if all women were the same and if every woman liked the same thing about herself as the woman walking on her left and on her right. From day one, a girl knows what she is good at and what she is not good at, and from there she builds CHARACTER.

First Flava: Don't cross her. She knows what she wants, she is determined, and she won't back off until she gets it. Some call her stubborn, she calls herself confident. She will step on toes, she's not afraid to stab someone in the back, and she breaks hearts - she will get what she wants. But, when it comes to her friends, there is nothing she holds on a higher pedestal. Not a man, not her co-workers and definitely not her family, who she no longer knows or speaks to. Let's call her powerful.

Second Flava: What could be more attractive than her sweet face? How about her ability to make anyone who comes in contact with her melt in her hand? While most people can't take their eyes off of her, even more people can't help but bend over backwards to get her exactly what she wants. And, she has no hidden motive. Let's call her innocent.

Third Flava: She's hot, she's irresistible, and she lives by no rules. You don't want her flirting with your boyfriend at the bar, you don't want her running in to your man at the ball game, and you definitely don't want her working with your husband. She likes to have fun, and she does what she wants, as long as she has a good time. Let's call her dangerous.

Fourth Flava: She says what's on every woman's mind, but what no woman will ever say (except her). She'll tell you how she can't move on from fantasizing about her co-worker, how the woman sitting at the next table needs a major dye job, and how many women just want to get laid, no obligation, no connections. She'll say it loud and proud, and she won't care who's around to hear it. Let's call her honest.

Fifth Flava: She is shy, timid, predictable and has no confidence. That's right, none. She lives her life vicariously through her friends, and while she wants to be more daring and wants to live on the edge, she can't take that step and continues to live her life, day-by-day, doing the same thing and making the same choice today as she made yesterday. Let's call her sheltered.

Mix all the flavas together, add some tales, throw in a few male characters - and you have a story good enough to eat.